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Now There's Proof!
USA, Palo Alto, CA (AP)
Yesterday scientists revealed that beer contains traces of female hormones.
To prove their theory, the scientists fed 100 men 12 pints of beer
and observed that 100% of them gained weight,
talked excessively without making sense,
became emotional, and couldn't drive for shit.

No further testing is planned.

An elderly couple was driving cross-country, and the
woman was driving. She gets pulled over by the highway
patrol. The officer said, "Ma'am, did you know you were speeding?"

The woman turns to her husband and asks, "What did he say?"

The old man yells, "HE SAYS YOU WERE SPEEDING."

The patrolman says, "May I see your license?" The
woman turns to her husband and asks, "What did he say?"

The old man yells, "HE WANTS TO SEE YOUR LICENSE."

The woman gives him her license.
The patrolman says, "I see you are from Canada.
I spent some time there once, had the worst sex with a
woman I have ever had."
The woman turns to her husband and asks," What did he say?"

The old man yells, "HE SAYS HE THINKS HE KNOWS YOU"

My desire:

When I was in jr. high, all I wanted was a girl with big tits.
In high school, I dated a girl with big tits, but there was no passion.
So I decided I needed a passionate girl.
In college, I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional.
Everything was an emergency, she cried all the time.
So I decided I needed a girl with some stability.
I found a very stable girl, but she was boring.  She never got excited
about anything.  So I decided I needed a girl with some excitement.
I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her.  She rushed
from one thing to another, never settling on anything.
She was directionless.  So I decided to find a girl with some ambition.
After college, I found an ambitious girl and married her.  She was so
ambitious, she divorced me and took everything I owned.
Now all I want is a girl with big tits.

  Q: How can you tell if your wife is dead?

A: The sex is the same but the dishes pile up.

Q: If your wife keeps coming out of the kitchen to nag at you,

what have you done wrong?

A: Made her chain too long.

Priceless

Q: How is a woman like a condom?

A: Both spend more time in your wallet than on your dick.

Q: How can you tell if you're at a bulimic bachelor party?

A: The cake jumps out of the girl.

DO I LOOK FAT?

IT IS SATURDAY, a crisp fall afternoon, and you're exactly where you should
be: stretched out on the couch in front of a televised sporting event, opening
beer number two, relaxed in the knowledge that the pizza you ordered is even
now on its way.  Nothing could improve this moment, except maybe a bigger
television. Suddenly your wife enters the room and says, "What exactly do
you think you're doing?"

Is this a trick question?

Yes, it is. The trick is that no matter how you answer it, you will
immediately find yourself driving down to your nearest Home Depot where you
will spend the rest of the afternoon trying to decide the type of curtain rod
that's right for you.

How does this work?
It has as much to do with the nature of the question itself as with anything
else. Women are expert at posing questions that seem to have no right answer.
Here's a common example:
 

"DO I LOOK FAT?"
There is no answer to this question that won't be interpreted as "yes".
"No"  means yes.
"Yes" means yes.
"I don't know" means yes.
"It doesn't matter"  means yes.
The briefest hint of a pause before speaking means yes, yes, yes.
Most of us would rather take our degrees again than field this one, yet it may
well come up several times a week. Your only real choice is to say no, clearly
and immediately, leaving no possibility for any subtext, and making it sound
like a widely acknowledged fact and not simply your opinion. This doesn't
work, but all the other options are worse.

There are several other questions for which "no" is the only answer, and
several more that call for an emphatic and unqualified yes. In all of these
cases, elaboration, justification or any attempt to be funny is unlikely to
pay off.

Consult this handy chart:

JUST SAY NO!
Is there someone else?
Do you still fantasize about her?
Are you tired of me?

JUST SAY YES!
Do you still love me?
Do you ever fantasize about me?
Do you like my hair this way?

Unfortunately, many female inquiries require more than a simple yes or no
response. Some of them are more like riddles. Such as this one:

"WHICH SHOES LOOK BETTER?"
Typically you're already late for dinner when your wife. confronts you,
with one pair of shoes on and another alongside them. This is no ordinary
choice. It's a devious chicken/egg puzzler, the sort of choice that would lead
even Hobson to say to Mrs. Hobson, "Whichever, you old trout!" If you pick the
shoes she already has on, she'll think you're trying to hurry her. If you pick
the other pair, she'll think it's because you know you can't pick the ones she
has on. Some men try a non-linear approach and opt for a third, unoffered pair
of shoes, but this is inevitably taken as either an attack on her judgment or
an opportunity for her to attack yours. On no account suggest another dress.
You might as well say, "You're fat."

This raises the question of why she's asking you at all. She knows you don't
know which shoes look better, and she knows you don't care, so why is she
trying to elicit your opinion? This is part of an ongoing campaign to
domesticate you. As part of the same campaign, she will occasionally consult
you about alternative table settings or new towels. In these two cases a
disdainful and dismissive "beats me" should do the trick, but don't try that
with the shoe dilemma, or you'll miss your reservation. Instead, suggest that
she try on the other shoes, then tell her the first ones look better. This
lets you more or less off the hook, as long as you don't raise a fuss when she
decides that the second pair are better after all.
 

"WHERE DO YOU SEE THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING?"
This could be described as an essay question, since you're obviously not going
to get away with snappy little answers such as "forward" or "upstairs" or "I
dunno". Another problem is that you and your wife. are operating at cross-
purposes here. She wants a heartfelt expression of your feelings and an honest
assessment of your future together, and you want an easier question. There is
certainly no point in answering a toe-curling query like this one without at
least a rough idea of precisely what it is she wants to hear. Questions such
as this one are a category unto themselves, i.e. questions that should be
answered with another question. See how easily some of the more difficult
leading inquiries can be parried through the simple deployment of reflexive
interrogation.

HER: Where do you see this relationship going?
YOU: Where do you see this relationship going?

HER: Do you think she's attractive?
YOU: Who?

HER: Will you marry me?
YOU: Where am I?

HER: What if I were pregnant?
YOU: Are you pregnant?
HER: Why? Do I look fat?

Whoops! We're in a bit of trouble here. You should have seen that coming.
Try a more surreal approach:

HER: What if I were pregnant?
YOU: What if I were pregnant?

At the very least it gives you time to think up a better answer. Some all-
purpose question-answers include: How much is a lot? Why do you ask? Should I
be? What are you saying? Does it matter?  What's love gotta do with it? Are
you talking to me? (Note: Are you having your period? is not one of these.)
 

Let's try something easier.

"NOTICE ANYTHING DIFFERENT ABOUT ME?"
Well, .  .  .  slightly easier.
This question is of a piece with two others: "Have you
forgotten what today is?" and "Have you been listening to a word I've said?"
Apart from being questions that are easier to answer wrong than right, they're
the kinds of things women say in sitcoms. They are best treated in an ironic
post-modern context; i.e., just say what Ward Cleaver would say.
 

HER: Notice anything different about me?
YOU: New apron?

HER: Have you forgotten what today is?
YOU: Of course not. It's Thursday.

HER: Have you been listening to a word I've said?
YOU: That's nice, dear...

Funny, huh? Well, it's not your fault if she doesn't get it. If she wants a
better answer, she's going to have to start asking better questions. Questions
such as:
 

"HAVE YOU TAKEN A LOOK AT YOURSELF LATELY?"
This question and its cousin, the almost always uncalled for "Who do you think
you are?", are ways of gently reminding you how much of a factor pity was in
her original decision to go out with you, and how that decision could be
rescinded if you behave in any way that cannot be described as abject. You
probably brought this rebuke on yourself by mentioning that you reckon Brad
Pitt is getting a little chubby or by speculating that Jack Nicholson doesn't
have to wait until his birthday for oral sex. You're not really supposed to
answer either of these questions. You're just supposed to apologize for your
wanton self-esteem-having.

Instead of apologizing, just smile. Your many fold inadequacies as a boyfriend
- nay, as a man - are a kind of revenge all by themselves.

Next!
 

"DO YOU BELIEVE IN FIDELITY?"
Like most philosophical questions that seem to pop up out of the blue, this
question doesn't pop up out of the blue. This general query about fidelity is
in fact a coded inquiry about the extent of your fidelity on a specific
occasion or occasions. Your response will also have to be coded. Consult this
translation chart before giving your answer:

YOU SAY - Yes.
YOU MEAN - How much does she know?
SHE THINKS - He's hiding something.

YOU SAY - It depends.
YOU MEAN - How much does she know?
SHE THINKS - I knew it!

YOU SAY - Why do you ask?
YOU MEAN - How much does she know?
SHE THINKS - Bastard!

YOU SAY - I dunno. Do you?
YOU MEAN - How much does she know?
SHE THINKS - How much does he know?

There  are several more variations, but they're not worth going into. By the
time she asks you this question, you're already in deep trouble. It doesn't
really matter what you say, as long as you don't blush when you answer.

Let's look at an example that calls for more straightforward lying.
 

"WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT?"
She means, "You were looking at that girl, weren't you?" And you thought you'd
perfected that trick of keeping your neck still and just letting your eyes
swivel. Obviously, the truth is not the best answer here. We all know that the
truth can set you free, sometimes before you've found somewhere else to stay.
It may seem easy enough to answer this question with a cunning lie, but when
men are caught off-guard, their ability to deceive is impaired. Here are a few
of the more common mistakes men make when asked "What are you looking at?"

TOO SPECIFIC: "The rust around the bolts on the handle on the flap of that
mailbox on the northwest corner".

NOT SPECIFIC ENOUGH: "That thing."

TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE: "A diamond necklace in that window back there that would be perfect on you".

TOO TRUE TO BE GOOD: "A see-through nightie in that window back there that
would be perfect on you."

TOO OBVIOUS: "Nothing."

WAY TOO OBVIOUS: "That blonde babe over there with the big... I mean...
nothing."
 

Here's one that requires a little interpretation.

"WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO NOW?"
This one often crops up whenever some kind of emergency or seemingly
 insolvable problem arises. The part that requires interpretation is the
mysterious "we" in the middle. This means two things: in one sense, "we"
clearly means "you" - as in, "What are you going to do now"; but there is also
a sense of "we're in this together" implying that you bear equal
responsibility for the fact that she's just dropped her keys down a grate, or
that she stores her jack and spare tire in her garage so they won't get
stolen.

In such situations you'll probably find that the only answer to "What are we
going to do  now?" that you can think of is "We are going to break up. Good-
bye." Most likely you'll decide not to say anything. After which she will
probably let loose with the rather ill-advised:
 

"WHY DON'T YOU SAY SOMETHING?"
Whether you answer this one is up to you. There is only one question that you
should never, ever answer. Keep silent, cower behind your Fifth Amendment
rights, pretend you didn't hear, run away, whatever, but don't say anything
when she asks:
 

"SHOULD I GET ALL OF MY HAIR CUT OFF?"
If you say anything, then when she does get all her hair cut off (and let's
face it, she's already made up her mind) and she hates it (and she will hate
it), it will be your fault. Even if you say absolutely nothing, the best you
can hope for is that she will come home with all her hair cut off, stare you
straight in the eye and say:
 
 
"DOES IT MAKE ME LOOK FAT?"
 
Sorry, . . .You're on your own now.
 
 
 
 
 
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